Just a quick observation. As one of the overseers of the "Rumson Oxford House" I just want to know a few things. Feel free to hide, deny or just call me delusional, but just for my own piece of mind, why was a gentleman, in a black BMW, license plate available, following me. Why did he show up everywhere I went. Why did he get nervous and leave in a hurry when I approached him. More like ran. My approach would be and is different, come talk to me. Don't stalk me. If you want to know something ask, don't come up with the answer before the question is asked. Of course I must have imagined the whole thing, just like I imagined the problem that is killing the people we love will go away if i just pretend it doesn't exist. Denial will buy you some time, but ignorance will kill you.