The difference between fantasy magic and real magic seems to be:
when you're sitting around visualizing, creating mental imagery, using the law of attraction, waiting for the "poof" "ala-kazaam" moment when it shows up at the couch you're sitting on, that's fantasy magic.
When you're doing, working toward a creation; involved in enterprise, project or purpose; when you're on a mission and you collaborate with the universe as it is, allowing the universe room to do its part, leaving available the space in your planning and actions for possibilities beyond your absolute knowledge and resources, acting as if the things you need will come and they do,
...that's real magic.
