Hiccups in Life Are Normal

There is nobody in this world that does not experience hiccups. All things in life—good, bad or ugly—are part of the human process. Clearly, every person handles those hiccups in a different way.

Routine is good, but routine can get anyone into a rut, even into a quagmire. If  in a quagmire, the first thing a person does is put those arms up, see if there is something to grab to pull oneself out of the quagmire and continue to march. (Continue to March is an old military expression that means continue on your path, in the direction you are going and don’t get distracted.)

No person handles an issue the same. No child, no adult, no spouse or significant other, no one handles issues the same way.

That is what makes every person different, unique, their own person. And that is why every person reacts differently or handles situations differently, to the same situation, its part of the human condition.

So it goes with a person apologizing when they may not know why they are apologizing. We all learn that it is important not to get entrenched in attitude or reaction when involved with love ones and close friends. Just like the first time a person recognizes they are in love and it is a real thing, it’s important not to allow oneself to become entrenched in attitude that something not said should be said. 

The older we get, the more stubborn most males are, and in my observation woman tend to be more flexible and less stubborn, sometimes. That is probably why so many women who have achieved a high level in business are more effective. It’s because they are less stubborn, more flexible than their male counterparts.

This blog is a way to vent, in an ambiguous way, my perceptions of truth when dealing with others and a way to use this process to articulate, again, without being specific about truths in relationships.

With all things in life, the best answer to situations is to allow time to pass and, with that, a calm is generated over the issue, solutions take care of themselves, and all is then good with the world, in one's mind at least.

Excuse me I just hiccupped… wait my hiccup is gone.