Obituary: Benjamin John Futie, 94, Of Greenwich

Courtesy of Castiglione Funeral Home

Benjamin J. Futie, 94 of Greenwich, CT passed away peacefully on December 7, 2023. He was born on December 28,1928 in Greenwich, CT to Samuel and Vera Futie. He married the love of his life Marguerite Insinga in 1953 and had 3 children: Fr. Richard Futie, Tracy (m. Barrett Heyde), and Lawrence. Ben was predeceased by his his loving wife (Marguerite) of 61 years, his son Fr. Richard Futie, and his sister Theresa.

He attended Fairfield Prep and University, as well as, the Rhode Island School of Design where he studied architecture. He was a proud veteran who served his country while stationed in Japan during the Korean War. While serving, he oversaw a carpentry shop and was in charge of cargo planning on the ships to ensure each ship’s safety. Ben worked with his father at S.L. Futie Construction Co., and eventually took over the business upon Sam’s retirement. He built and renovated many homes throughout Greenwich, where he was well known as a professional and reputable contractor.

His greatest joy was his family. He always went above and beyond to make holidays and family vacations fun and exciting. He actively encouraged and supported each of his children to pursue their own passions in life. Upon his retirement he moved to Dorset, VT, where he loved to host and entertain family, friends and relatives at his “Country Home.” He also took great pleasure in going to Saratoga race track where, very often, he was a lucky winner. After many years in Vermont, he built a new home in Kent, CT. He returned to Greenwich to be close to his family. A highlight of his life was spending time with his grandsons Zachary and Jake. He loved planning and creating each new adventure including fishing trips, kayaking, wood shop projects, hikes, and farm visits.

Ben (Poppy) was the family patriarch, an amazing storyteller, great friend, and talented artist. In his final decade he immersed himself in activities and projects which enriched his daily life. He spent his days drawing, watercolor painting, wood burning images, carving, and creating videos with soundtracks on his computer. He took great pleasure in creative pursuits and learning new things. Ben was young at heart and loved to laugh. When asked about his “secret” to a fulfilling and long life he’d say, “Keep challenging your mind, learn new things, and everything in moderation.”

Ben was a fun-loving person, and an inspiration to those who knew him. Family and friends were always entertained by his antics and amusing stories. He leaves behind many wonderful warm memories. Ben exemplified a life well lived.

A funeral mass will be held on December 19 at 10:30 am, at St Paul Church in Greenwich, CT, followed by a burial at St. Mary Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital
stjude.org