Daniel H. Cummings, 31, of Milford, passed away on January 9, 2025.

“What we have once enjoyed we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us.”
Helen Keller

Daniel Hudson Cummings, 31, of Milford, passed away on January 9, 2025. Born on October 6, 1993, in New Haven, he was the son of Kelley L Cummings and Benjamin J Danehy III.

Daniel first lived in West Haven, a stone’s throw from Long Island Sound. But he grew up in the borough of Woodmont - a place where the possibility of endless adventures could be had. Dan, his brother Ryan, and dear childhood friends took full advantage.

He was lovingly referred to as “Dangerous Dan” by his Uncle Paulie, both on and off the pitcher’s mound. He loved the beach and walked his thoughts along its shore, finding peace here as he did in all aspects of nature. Second only to home among his favorite places was Hawaii, where he fell in love with the vast expanse of the Hawaiian blue waters, its fertile vistas, and the exciting experiences it offered. He even had the opportunity to conquer his fear of heights by learning to skydive.

Daniel’s love of gardening began in his early years, nurtured by his maternal grandmother, and continued into adulthood. Whether he had acres or a mere balcony, there was always a garden. He even explored hydroponics. Just last fall, after their final harvest, he and his mother planned modifications to the family garden for the coming year.

In addition to gardening, Daniel loved his cats immensely, late-night talks in the kitchen with his dad discussing legends, pottery, yoga, hiking, board games, cooking, making salves with his mom, cheeseburgers, meatloaf, and looking fine. He recently participated in an archaeological excavation with his mother, discovering historical artifacts that fascinated him.

Daniel loved nature and all its creatures. He had a habit of bringing home any animal, bird, or person he believed needed a little help. Understanding what it felt like to need help, his generosity knew no bounds.

Daniel valued family above all. He tried to see the good in everyone and hated seeing people sad. That’s why he became his family’s biggest cheerleader, cheering at award ceremonies, high-fiving, and hugging for even the smallest accomplishments.

He often said, “I’m proud of you.” Those words, when spoken by Daniel, were genuine and heartfelt.

Similarly, when he sensed sadness in someone, his infectious smile and enthusiasm could draw them in. He loved to bring joy, hope, or simply a moment of relief to those around him.

Despite his efforts to uplift others, Daniel ultimately succumbed to a deep sorrow within himself.

Daniel, you were so brave. We will love you forever, keeping you close and safe in our hearts. We are grateful for the love, laughter, and sweetness you brought to our lives. Your life mattered.
A Hui Hou (until we meet again)

In addition to his parents, Daniel is survived by his sisters, Leah Cummings of West Haven, Lily Cummings-Danehy of Milford, Christine Danehy of Madison, Carrie (husband Jeff) Suraci of Clinton, and brother Ryan (wife Bekah) Danehy. He will also be dearly missed by his grandmother, Sandra Cummings; aunts Leigh Mherabi, Leslie Curtis, Colleen Lindroos, Mary Knott, Moira Danehy, Dolorita Coutts, Sheila Danehy, Regina Paulhus, Mary Miller; uncles Nader Mherabi, Bill Curtis, Robert Coutts, Robert Cox, Glenn Chizmazia, Brian Miller, John Danehy, David Paulhus, and several cousins. He was preceded in death by his maternal grandfather, Daniel Cummings; his paternal grandparents, Benjamin and Rosalie Danehy; his uncle, Paul Danehy; and his aunt, Maureen Cox.

In honor of Daniel, we ask you to take the time to learn more on how reasonable national gun laws could save so many people. Consider reaching out to your representatives to work for legislation that imposes a reasonable waiting period to guard against impulsive acts as well as a national recognition of red flag laws pertaining to all firearms. We can save lives.

Taking the time to listen compassionately without judgement helps people express their emotions and helps them feel safe and cared for. Be the one to provide the smile, the conversation, and the willingness to help fade the stigma of depression and mental illnesses. It is the transparency of people with lived experiences that can help break down these barriers.

A Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday, June 7, 2025, at Woodmont Beach followed by a reception at the Woodmont Borough Hall. Details TBA. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to:

The Beth-El Center
Phone: 475-280-6429
Email: jstoyeck@bethelmilford.org
or
Cooked with love
https://gofund.me/fcce3d3f