Joseph A. Arpino, 84 of Milford, passed away on January 26, 2025

Joseph A. Arpino, 84 of Milford, passed away peacefully on January 26, 2025. Joseph, “Joe”, was born on August 19, 1940, in New Haven, CT, son of the late Pasquale and Caroline Arpino. Joe was the beloved husband of Carol Benjamin Arpino for nearly 60 years.

Born and raised in Connecticut, Joe enlisted in the U.S. Army in 1959 following the Korean war in which he was stationed in Korea to help with the construction and rebuilding of the country following the war. Joe’s service left a lasting legacy, inspiring his grandson Dylan, who joined the Marines and often spoke of his grandfather as his hero, wanting to follow in his footprints.

After his military service, Joe returned home and took over the family business, Arpino Asphalt & Paving, alongside his brother Carmen. Together, they transformed an already successful company into a cornerstone of the community, known for their integrity and exceptional service. Joe worked tirelessly until the age of 84, embodying dedication and pride in his work, with his son carrying on the business into the third generation.

Joe and his beloved wife, Carol, shared many adventures during their marriage, traveling to all 50 states and the Caribbean islands. They especially enjoyed escaping the cold winters to sunny Florida. Among Joe’s favorite traditions were the Thanksgiving week trips to his hunting cabin in Maine, where he spent time with family, friends, and employees. He also found joy in golfing, maintaining his immaculate lawn, and helping his daughter with home improvement projects.
Lovingly known as “PopPop,” Joe was a central figure in the lives of his children, grandchildren, nieces, nephews, extended family, and friends, who cherished his guidance and love.

The family extends their heartfelt gratitude to Joe’s primary care physician, Dr. Kashaf, and the V.A. Cancer Center of Connecticut, whose skilled and compassionate care extended his life far beyond initial expectations. They are also deeply thankful for his hospice nurse, Ann, who provided comfort and care during his final days.

In addition to his beloved wife, Carol, Joe is survived by his daughter Denise Arpino (fiancée Scott Ashley), son Joseph P. Arpino, granddaughter Angelica Arpino (fiancée Bradley McCormick), grandson Dylan Arpino, and sister Phyllis Arpino. As well as his best friend of over 70 years, Edward White, and many beloved extended family and friends. He was predeceased by his brother Carmen Arpino.

Joe will be remembered for his tenderhearted personality and devotion to everyone in his life.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Thursday, January 30, 2025, from 3:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford. Funeral Service will be celebrated on Friday, January 31, 2025, at 11:00 a.m. at First United Church of Christ, 34 W Main St, Milford, CT 06460 (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Interment will follow at Milford Cemetery, Cherry St., Milford CT.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to First United Church of Christ Organ Fund or Steeple Fund online at www.firstchurchofmilford.org/website/publish/giving or to the American Cancer Society online at www.donate.cancer.org

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