Obituary: Lola J. Wakeley, age 86

Lola Jane Wakeley, age 86, of Milford, passed away on Monday, October 19, 2026 peacefully with family by her side. She was born on August 6, 1940, in Old Forge, Pennsylvania, to James and Mary (Titus) Niper.
Lola was married to the love of her life, Howard, for 56 years until his passing in 2018. They enjoyed traveling together, especially a memorable trip to Ireland.
The oldest daughter of eight children, Lola cherished her family, gathering for holidays, and loved sharing stories of growing up. She was strong-willed and independent, she created lasting memories with those she loved. Although she had no children of her own, her nieces and nephews held a special place in her heart. She and her sister, Betty Lou, enjoyed taking the children to school shopping each year, along with a memorable road trip to Nebraska.
Lola worked in finance throughout her career and retired from Ascom Hasler. She will be remembered for her strong spirit, love of family, the stories and memories she leaves behind.
She is survived by her sister, Diana Lee Flanagan (Daniel) of Nebraska; her brother, Allen Niper (Janet) of Milford; her nieces and nephews, James Niper III (Carolyn), Susan Schmersal (Erik), David Flanagan (Sara), Allen Niper II (Stacy), and Andrew Niper (Lauren); and her great-nieces and great-nephews, Luther, Logan, and Allen Niper III, Natalie and Emily Schmersal, and Molly Flanagan.
She was predeceased by her beloved husband, Howard; her parents, James and Mary Niper; her siblings, Luther, James, Robert, Betty Lou, and Richard Niper; and her nephew, Luther Niper.
The family extends heartfelt thanks to the caregivers at The Landing in North Haven, Chris from Constellation Health Services, and Naomi for the exceptional care, kindness, and compassion they provided to Lola.
Family and friends are invited to call on FRIDAY, OCTOBER 23rd from 5:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. in THE GREGORY DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford. A Funeral Service will be held on SATURDAY, OCTOBER 24th at 10:00 a.m. in The Funeral Home. Interment will follow in Lakeview Cemetery, Bridgeport. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Alzheimer’s Association in Lola’s memory. To leave an online condolence, please visit, gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.