Patricia A. Hoey, 90, of Milford, Connecticut, passed away peacefully at her home on March 8, 2026.

Patricia A. Hoey, 90, of Milford, Connecticut, passed away peacefully at her home on March 8, 2026.

Patricia was born on May 30, 1935, in Englewood, New Jersey, to the late Michael and Ella O’Brien. She was the beloved wife of the late Francis “Frank” Patrick Hoey Sr., with whom she shared 48 years of marriage. Patricia lived in Stamford for many years before moving to Milford, Connecticut.

Patricia lived a life marked by resilience, determination, and warmth. She lived most of her life with significant hearing loss; she did not begin school until the age of seven. At a time when opportunities for children with disabilities were limited, she became the first student in her area to receive special education, helping pave the way for others who followed. A remarkably skilled lip reader, Patricia never allowed her hearing loss to limit her independence or her determination.

She attended Fairleigh Dickinson University for six years, studying accounting and medical technologies. Patricia later worked as a postal clerk for the United States Postal Service for nearly 40 years, retiring at the age of 74. She had a lifelong love of learning and embraced new things with enthusiasm—from mastering technology such as texting and FaceTime, to making regular trips to the library, and even taking up crocheting at the age of 90 so she could make scarves for her family.

Patricia was beloved by all who knew her and had an extraordinary sense of humor that made her a joy to be around. Throughout her life she enjoyed dancing, playing tennis, watching the Patriots, playing cards and bingo, and crocheting with friends. Above all, she treasured time spent with her family. Strong and inspirational, Patricia remained active in her community, where her neighbors became like family. She will be remembered for her kindness, perseverance, quick wit, and the happiness she brought to so many lives.

Patricia is survived by her loving children: Daniel P. Hoey (Lynnette), Timothy F. Hoey (Stacy Ferber), Kelley M. Maconochie (Robert), and Frank P. Hoey Jr. (Deirdre). She was the proud grandmother of nine cherished grandchildren: Emily Resk (Mitchell), Jackson Hoey, Kimberleigh Hoey, Adriano Maconochie (Samantha), Shannon Maconochie, Jacklyn Maconochie, Mackenzie Hoey, Teagan Hoey, and Grace Hoey. She is also survived by many additional beloved family members and friends.

She was predeceased by the love of her life, her husband Frank, and their oldest son, Michael B. Hoey.

Family and friends are invited to gather on Sunday, March 15, 2026, from 12:00 p.m. to 3:00 p.m. at Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford, Connecticut.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday, March 16, 2026, at 9:30 a.m. at the Church of the Holy Spirit, 403 Scofieldtown Road, Stamford, Connecticut. Interment will follow at Queen of Peace Cemetery, 124 Rock Rimmon Road, Stamford, Connecticut.

Though her voice may now be silent, the love, laughter, and strength she shared will continue to echo in the hearts of all who knew her.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in Patricia’s honor may be made to the DeMaio Garden Club, the community where she spent the last nine years. Checks may be mailed to 75 DeMaio Drive, B-10, Milford, CT 06460.

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