Obituary: Mary Kinser, 92, Of Westport

The following obituary of Westport resident Mary Kinser, 92, is from Spear -Miller Funeral Home:

With loved ones singing and praying by her side, Mary Kinser passed away peacefully in her
sleep early Friday morning Nov. 11 at her home in Westport, CT. She was a gift to all who knew
her. A tiny package with a huge impact. A loving and devoted mother, mother-in-law, sister,
aunt and friend; she loved deeply, gave abundantly and served gleefully. She loved life and lived
it to the fullest.

Born Mary Berta Hackworth, March 9, 1930 in Ashland Kentucky to the late Bert Hackworth and
Goldie Lucas Hackworth, she grew up in Huntington, West Virginia. After graduating Huntington
High School, she attended business school and worked as a bookkeeper. On April 15, 1950 she
married the love of her life, Bill Kinser. A year later their daughter Mary Jo was born. The three
of them had countless adventures together all across the United States and Europe; including a
1961 cross country road trip from Huntington, WV to San Diego CA in an unairconditioned
sports car, and a trip to New York City for the 1964 World’s Fair. In 1966 the family moved to
Toledo, Ohio where Mary continued her work as a bookkeeper and bank teller. In 1980 Bill and
Mary moved to Geneva, Switzerland for Bill’s work at Owens Illinois. She loved The Alps where
she hiked weekly and cross country skied in the winter. Upon her husband’s death in 1982 she
took the bold step of moving to Westport Connecticut, 45 miles outside New York City, where
her daughter was living, but where she knew no one. There she started a new life for herself,
working as the receptionist at the Westport Y and a real estate assistant, as well as babysitting
countless children in her community. She loved the beach and combing for shells. Many a day
was spent walking on Compo Beach and enjoying sunsets and moon rises over Long Island
Sound. She found joy and excitement in New York City and took pleasure in the arts and culture
it offered.

A member of The United Methodist Church of Westport and Weston, she served her church
and community for over 40 years – teaching Sunday school, preparing communion, babysitting
in the nursery, and visiting the sick. She fed the homeless at the shelter in Westport,
volunteered in the pantry at the food bank, delivered meals to shut-ins, raised money for the
less fortunate and administered to the needy. She even volunteered at a Home for the Aged
when she lived in Geneva Switzerland. Sweet and humble, her strength amazed all who knew
her and her bright indomitable spirit was an inspiration to all.

She is preceded in death by her parents, husband, and sisters Mabel Rumbaugh and Mearilyn
Auvil. She is survived by her daughter Mary Jo Kinser and son-in-law Greg Hawkins; brother
John Hackworth (Debra); nieces Linda LeMaster, and Brandi Day (Jeff); nephews, Jim Rumbaugh
(Donna), Jon Auvil (Beverly) and Shane Hackworth (Betsy Carter); great nieces Tia Rumbaugh,
Lisa Ryan (Mark Utterback), Caroline, Elizabeth (Zane Moore) and Kate Auvil, and Olivia
Hackworth; great nephews Mark Smith, Jefferson and Lincoln Day; great, great nieces
Emmaleah Rumbaugh and Willow Moore; great, great nephew James Stump; step
granddaughters Hannah Smith (Luke) and Rachel Filer (Jeff); step great grandchildren Clara,
Mac and Marshall Smith, and Evan and Vera Filer.

Funeral services will be held at 12 p.m. Sat. Nov. 26 at Central United Methodist Church,
Huntington, WV. Visitation will be Friday Nov. 25, 3 p.m. – 5 p.m. at Reger Funeral Home in
Huntington. A Memorial Service will be held March 11, 2023, at United Methodist Church of
Westport and Weston in Westport, CT.

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