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Misunderstood

Beneath her bossy demeanor, Sidney is just a scared kitty waiting for someone to restore her faith in love.

I Know I Can Learn to Love Again

My name is Sidney and, unfortunately, I have the distinction of being the longest resident at Cat Depot. It’s not an easy cross to bear and I’m going to be honest with you…I don’t always show my best side to visitors. And I know that’s my downfall.

You see, I’ve been here so long that I tend to be temperamental. People come and visit. But they always leave. You could say that I’ve lost my faith in love.

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I’ve also seen many cats come and go from my suite. Yes, I said “my” suite. Since I’ve been here the longest, I feel like it’s my home and the other kitties are visitors. I do like my space, so I can be territorial at times. But not because I’m mean – I just like to protect what I feel is mine.

But before you think that I’m just a bossy, possessive girl, let me tell you what brings out the best in me. I gravitate towards gentle, calm people. If you are patient and don’t approach me too quickly, I will climb onto your lap. Patience is the key – let me come to you. And I don’t like too much petting. A gentle head scrub now and then is nice. Once I feel safe and relaxed on your lap, I’ll take a nap. I may even wrap my arms around your neck and give you a hug. If you have long hair… well, I may not want to let you go. Speaking of letting go, I do admit that I hate when people leave me. I even may swat at you as you walk away from me. But, once again, I’m not being spiteful, I’m just upset that you are leaving me.

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My dream home would be a place where I’m the only pet. I will do my best to be such a perfect pet that you won’t even want any others.

I know I’m a hard sell. But if you can see past the armor that I’ve built up to protect myself, I know that you will find that I have a good heart. And I know that you can help me learn to trust and believe in love again.

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