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5 Lessons From A Big Mistake
Have you ever made a decision based out of frustration that left you in an even worse situation? You're not alone. Here's 5 ideas on how to better handle those circumstances we face every day.
There seems to be a pattern. I think some of the worst decisions and choices I make happen when I react to feelings of anger and frustration. I’m sure you’ve been there. Maybe it’s a coworker who sends you over the edge, a child who won’t listen, or even the smallest situation (traffic, an unexpected bill, or sickness). When we react, we generally end up doing things we regret. And those poor choices lead to even worse consequences.
It’s exactly what happens in the Bible, in Numbers chapter 20. Moses is leading the Israelites through the wilderness, and they grow frustrated because there is no water for them and their animals. Once again, God comes through with a plan. He tells Moses to speak to the rock right in front of him, and it will produce water for all the people. Unfortunately, Moses feels the need to take the situation into his own hands. Instead of speaking to the rock, Moses (angry and frustrated) takes a stick and strikes the rock twice. Yes, water comes out, and everyone is able to drink…but Moses’ choice to disobey God is a costly one.
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I think there are 5 great leadership lessons from the poor decision Moses made:
1. Decisions made out of anger and frustration can be costly.
When we’re frustrated we often say and do things we later regret. It’s much better to wait it out, and hold off on a big decision until we’re thinking clearly.
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2. Disobeying God to keep people confident in your abilities is never a good idea.
Focusing on man’s opinion, is the quickest way to forget God’s plan.
3. When things don’t go as planned, keep trusting God.
God works best in our weakness. If your faith is being tested, remember that God wants to do something great through that situation. Don’t lose hope: “He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion.” (Philippians 1:6)
4. Good leadership is proactive not reactive.
Lead with the confidence and vision God has given you. Responding to every attack and criticism will lead to a lot of frustration, and only cause you to become less than who God has called you to be.
5. Keep pleasing God.
When you go through circumstances that create frustration, anger, and disappointment, keep doing what God says. Walking out His plan produces the greatest peace and joy…and it leads us to the destiny He has for us.
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