CAUTION: I Carry (Knitting) Needles

About 3 weeks ago now, Miss Manners discussed knitters in her column. Yes, I know its old news now, but it took me that long to put down my knitting! 

Anyhow, I have pasted a copy of the question:

DEAR MISS MANNERS:

Is it acceptable to knit at a church, synagogue or other religious service? And what about a concert or recital? I recently attended a piano and violin recital in a small venue where someone was knitting in the third row. Surely it was evident to the performers. And if such knitting is not appropriate, how should the knitters be approached, or prevented?

I have to give a high five to Ms. Manners for her response. You must click on the link to read her response. However, you do not have to click on a link to read my thoughts. Of course, this is for your eyes only (exclusive, right?).

Dear Miss Uneedtomindyourownbusiness,

If you were so interested in the concert, why were your eyes on the third row? I find it hard to believe that out of all things - late-comers, texters, gum smackers, and loud whisperers, just to name a few - that my knitting in the 3rd row (which implies that you were probably sitting in the balcony) offended you!

Had you been sitting closer, I would have given you the death stare and wickedly pointed my needles at you. But alas, since you were not, I will be kind enough to explain myself this one time. Consider it a courtesy.

I knit because it's hard for me to sit for long periods of time without moving my hands. Knitting helps me focus more.  I think it has something to do with being a tactile and kinesthetic learner. Although, I love my ADDIs (fast metal needles),  I wasn't knitting with them at the recital. Instead, I was using my denise needles (virtually soundless needles made of resin).  Sooo, once again, I am baffled by your irritation with my knitting. 

Forgive me for asking, but are you one of those people who think knitting in public is rude? To ease your mind, I would like you to know that most times, I do ask the speaker or presenter if they mind me knitting. Most don't. However, there are those few simple-minded people who need to be the center of attention and don't want you doing anything else but listen to them. As if that really happens!

I'll let you know a secret though. Most knitters do not knit in public unless they are advanced. This means they can focus on the presentation or concert because they don't need to look at their project to knit especially if they are sock knitters. The only time you will see an inexperienced knitter knitting in public is on National Knit in Public Day!