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Accepting the Choices of Adult Children
Dr. Clatch writes about how parents can positively relate to their adult children while also resisting the urge to parent.
For parents of young adults, new attitudes regarding marriage and family life may seem quite shocking and surprising. Many parents may believe that in order for their children to have happy and successful families, marriage is needed. For some parents and young adult children, this difference in values may prompt conflict. Parents that adhere to their values may find it difficult to accept the views of their children. This may create notable barriers to successful communication and positive relationship outcomes.
For parents faced with this difficult situation, moving forward can be a challenge. However, it is necessary for parents to recognize their role in their adult children’s lives and attempt to accept the decisions made by them. Although adult children are often seen as still in need of support and guidance, parents need to recognize that their role in shaping outcomes for their children has changed.
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