Communicate with Children During Divorce

For parents, putting systems thinking into perspective can be a daunting challenge. As such, parents should keep several things in mind when helping their children navigate the process of divorce.

First, parents need to communicate with children – before, during and following the divorce. Communication before and during the divorce process can help calm a child’s fears about what will happen once the separation is complete. Communication can also provide a foundation for reassuring the child the he or she is still loved. In the aftermath of the divorce, communication will remain a central foundation for interaction.

Research demonstrates that children separated from a parent as a result of divorce often feel as if the parent does not love them or does not think about them. Providing reassurance through communication can help children feel more secure and better able to cope with the situation.

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