Coping With Loss: Ages 5-8

Children in this age group often have misconceptions about death and may believe that they are responsible for a loved one’s passing. Caregivers need to reassure children that death is a natural process and one over which children do not have control. Honest answers about death will be important for children to grasp the concept and know that they are not responsible. Support and reassurance from family members will be needed on a continuing basis as children may take several months to process and understand the loss.

At this age, children are likely to ask questions about death, including where loved ones go when they die. This offers parents the opportunity to either respond with their own personal beliefs on what happens after death, or to engage their child in a discussion about where the child believes their loved one is. Children between the ages of five and eight are often very creative, so inviting the child to articulate their feelings through art can be cathartic and help the child process their grief in positive ways. Therapy - including art therapy - is a good option for parents seeking extra support for grieving children.

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