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Coping With Loss: Ages 9-12
Dr. Clatch writes about how parents can support their children between the ages of nine and twelve cope with the loss of a loved one.
Children between the ages of 9 and 12 have a concrete understanding of the finality of death. Because of this understanding and the emotional pain that accompanies the reality of the loss, children may choose not to talk about the issue and may instead grieve in silence and cope in their own unique way. Caregivers should not pressure children in this age group to talk about death or their feelings, rather they should allow the child space and freedom to raise the subject and then attempt to communicate about the issue. However, stay attuned to the child and give indirect support to keep them aware of your love and empathy for whatever they are feeling at the time.
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