Sandburg Community Bids Farewell to Beloved Coach 'Warrior Jane'

When Jim Caliendo came to interview for a job at Sandburg High School, he met a woman who was introduced as his assistant coach.

Twelve years later, he recalls that sidekick—and wife—Jane Caliendo as one of the most passionate, influential people in his life. He and Principal Deb Baker join the school community in mourning the loss of the beloved girls swimming and water polo coach of 22 years, who died Saturday after a battle with cancer.

“We talk about enthusiasm, she was very passionate, enthusiastic,” Baker said.

But what stood out the most was Jane’s sense of fairness, she said.

“Jane was acutely aware that everyone else needed time and space, as well,” Baker said, of Jane sharing the school’s facilities. “She made sure that other teams, other programs got the time and attention they needed.

“She knew that you’ve got to give up some things, for the benefit of all. That’s rare. That’s unique.”

A 1987 graduate herself, Jane’s love for the school ran deep, and she found her way back to the blue and gold after donning the orange and blue at University of Illinois.

As a coach and role model, Jane set a ton of respect and admiration for other competitors and their efforts.

“She followed and was involved in a lot of other competitors’ successes,” Jim Caliendo said. “She would know and make a point to talk to some of the young ladies we competed against.

“I think she surprised some of them some times, that she knew so much about them. I think she really touched a lot of people with that kind of attention.”

A compassionate, strong coach, it was Jane’s actions during her battle with cancer that moved the school community. Upon Jane’s diagnosis, she and Caliendo asked for prayers from those around them.

“She believed in the power of prayer,” Caliendo said. “The more people knew, the more people that were praying for her, the more it might help. Jane became an inspiration to everybody who watched how noble and strong she fought. How positive she remained throughout the struggle.

“One of the things I’ve heard most from everybody, is how inspired they were by how she remained so positive, with a great smile and great attitude. The whole complexion of the situation changed.

“What started out as us asking for help, turned into Jane inspiring so many people,” Caliendo said. “Pretty amazing.”

Students and staff at Sandburg gave Jane a final sendoff with an honor guard near the school as her funeral procession passed. A celebration of her life will be planned for a later date.

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