Cyber bullying and AI tools helping to increase it. I was one of those victims.

I wanted to start off by saying social media is bad as it is TikTok being the worst, but a lot of sadly many people have lost their lives to cyber bowling. You have to be as tough as nails to deal with. That’s kind of stuff even those are strangers on the other end of the screen they can still do a lot of damage. Like the story of the eight-year-old girl keep her name private who committed suicide on Facebook from bullying parents please keep your children off TikTok unless there’s certain age and it’s monitored on the cell phone. My story begins about three years ago with a woman I encountered who sent me a message introducing yourself I thought oh she’s a nice old lady motherly figure blah blah blah. Oh boy was that far from it . She introduced herself and then went right into the question about a pro lab on there who completely obsessed with her and twisted mind things that she has a relationship with him or some of them obsession and she asked me do I go on this person‘s lives I said, sometimes we’ve been friends for a couple of years And then she went to the question. Well has this person never says you loved you? The weird flag started going off red flag like crazy. Why would she ask me? Oh OK I understand why she would ask me because she thought that I was a threat to her. So I didn’t think anything of it you know back-and-forth hello and then we developed a relationship and then it got really bad where I had to get a restraining order against her because she became so possessive of the specific individual she told me not to go on his lives That he was listening. She was playing both sides of the fence basically Mind you had no interest in this person because two different worlds are you know very immature you know I come from a traditional home. I don’t anyway without going to that too much. I had a restraining order against her. She lives in Miami and she’s really good at playing playing games I mean really really good And gossiping was her life and social media was her world. She would spend 17 to 18 hours on social media and knew everybody’s lives on social media like that’s weird. Long story short got a restraining order stayed away from her for a year, then went back to talking to her after she called me out of the blue and started swearing at me and I said you need to calm down you know maybe you know You were out of hand I was out of hand whatever I forgive you and then blow and behold started talking again, but I should’ve known from the warning flag. I mean I went out of my way for her blah blah blah. She never did that for me. Every conversation we had she tried to accompany me down and say you’re full of yourself your shallow or she’d go on my music video and say you look so fat in that video and it’s like who are you judging I was miss Illinois I was Getting really up there professional model Find and any kind of information she could which there was none except gossip and you know I have a brother who is an alcoholic who lies a lot when I get into arguments with him. I’ll start making up stuff. Well, that’s all she needed now did she because when she googled me and found all kinds of things that were true she didn’t like that at all. She says it’s all overrated. It’s all lies. Until she saw this article this article is the reason I’m going to court a claim I was arrested for a DUI, which is funny. I don’t drink that never happened. I warned the publication to take it down the date of birth the picture everything wrong But boy did she take that around with it cause out of the million things that were true. She found the one thing that was untrue and made it true. There’s nothing I could’ve done for this woman her hatred and jealousy was just unbelievable and she was the victim of course so the second time around I just no way in no way will I ever get near her and of course she twisting around and down Continues to go on and I have a lot of young male friends, my age, 30s and stuff she can call me 51 whatever she wants not my business cause I was a victim of Birth certificate and information was taken, so oh boy was that like the cherry on her on top of her case she didn’t say this woman helped me save my dog. She was there for me no because the utter hatred and jealousy overpowered her, and she was older than my mother I couldn’t fathom that still eats her alive. Still eats her alive and then she’s threatening me. I’m gonna do this. I’m gonna do that. You know I would just crawl under a rock and the money I gave her was over $1000 to help save her dog and I’ll pay you back. Thank you you save my life blah blah blah never pay it back, but the person the man she was obsessed with she give him money, no problem and help other people her age or a problem you know this is not the first diverse cyber stocking I’ve had on TikTok by other you know Women that were oh gosh, I don’t know what the men were thinking marrying Yeah that’s what happens. That’s the terrifying us. Luckily, I am very cautious now. Cause a lot of women do end up getting killed and hurt by you know you don’t have to be young and jealous. You can be old and jealous too and that’s my story so I’m taking this publication to court to clear my name, my age everything else and TikTok too I don’t know what’s your campaign that she did, but I took some time off because I have work to do I don’t have time to sit on the Internet and yeah, so basically you know the masters degree I earned was fake. The 21 magazine covers. I raced more coming. It’s all fake but the one little item she found on this newspaper, and that was real tabloid or but you know, my brother who was in a drunken state, would say was not true the next day not remember that was all true so wow it’s it’s really really sad. It’s not my loss Trust me. I’m glad she’s out of my life. I just regret helping people like that. Who would if they could save your life they would just be careful especially on site like TikTok. I’m going to dismantle everything that you said and online bullying is not OK it’s illegal and I will take it to the full extent of the law whether I have to go to Miami and the courts here in Illinois and put a gag order on her which just take time Very ill, sick woman Blah blah blah well she’s sweet to you because in her delusional mind, you are not a threat to her and you know I was there’s nothing I could do or say or anything for her to like me she just whatever but I know one thing I would know if someone did that and there’s rarity I would still give you the shirt off my back. It’s not gonna change who I am but Her NV hatred and jealousy was just more overpowering and I bring receipts so her campaign is going to come to an end, elderly woman you know hang out with other elderly woman and pcrochet go to church. This woman spends all her time online knows people from England to Australia, their personal and family issues which is just wow strange I just had to clear that up because I am just I’m not upset. I’m just like wow the level of hatred just unbelievable for someone who couldn’t save her dogs, but had money to loan This 34 year old man thinking she was going to have a romantic relationship with him. Even went out and got her passport to fly by him and I would invite her numerous times to dinner to come fly to Chicago. She wouldn’t send her birthday gifts through the mail. She would send me a text message. This woman didn’t like me so my whole point of the story long story short is if you are an accomplished individual who is also attractive and I battled at my whole life I should’ve known better but maybe her age gave it away. Just be careful because it’s with me as a constant battle, but I don’t care anymore a grown to thick skin. I thank God for the many gifts that I have but if this riches on kids, please guys don’t let social media social media fake it’s not true and you are beautiful on the inside and outside and what you’ve accomplished and done in your life and your soul in your character. Nobody can take that from you don’t give all your attention to one hateful or a group of hateful person because you obviously have something that they wish they could have