'Bigs' Offer Kid Help For Kid Problems Through Big Brothers Big Sisters

Each week, a group of students come together to give back to their community as a “big brother” or “big sister” in order to help make a difference in the lives of children in need around the community.

For the last 30 years, Big Brothers Big Sisters of Southern Kane and Kendall Counties has had the goal of improving the future outlook of children that have been troubled at an early age.  And, for the last ten years, the organization has been in cooperation with local high schools to recruit and encourage students to volunteer an hour a week to provide support for those in need.

“We go into high schools and recruit,” said Susan Ryan, Big Brothers Big Sisters Intern Case Manager Aid and Autumn Creek Elementary program supervisor.  “And, we ask that they commit to one year.” 

According to Ryan, there is a process that leads to the high school students being paired with their little brother or sister.  The children are referred to the program by the elementary schools and after the high school students have signed up to volunteer, an interview process begins to help match the “bigs” with the “littles.”               

“The interview was very in-depth,” said Allie Bohnstengel, freshman at Yorkville High School.  “I was asked many questions about my life, personality, interests, personal experiences, and why I wanted to be a 'big sister.'”

After all of the interviews are complete, a great deal of time and consideration goes into trying to make the best pairings that will be beneficial for all those involved within the program.

“We really get to know all of the kids, well,” indicated Ryan.  “We try to make what we think will be a successful match.”

Once the pairings are made, the “bigs” and “littles” meet once a week and take part in a variety of different activities that include anything from crafts and coloring to kickball.  Activities aside, the interaction is very goal oriented for both parties.

“My goal as a 'big sister' is to form a bond with my 'little sister' that can last a lifetime.  I want her to trust me and know that she can tell me anything," said Bohnstengel.  “The fact that an organization sees the potential that teenagers can have in a younger child's life is really nice.  Many times adults assume that kid problems have to be solved by adults.  Sometimes, kid problems just need kid help.”

Both Ryan and Bohnstengel stress the importance of being involved in the lives of children that are in need of a better future path.

“The 'littles' are always really excited.  It gives them a sense of importance,” added Ryan.  "It’s a fun, supervised program.”

If you or anyone you may know is interested in becoming a Big Brother or Big Sister, contact the Big Brothers Big Sisters of Southern Kane and Kendall Counties at 630-844-9090.