Mom's Talk Q&A: Are Children's Birthday Parties Over the Top?

Birthdays have become a huge deal, with parties costing hundreds of dollars and guest lists often topping 30 (or more) children. The parties can stress parents—and children—with high expectations.

Some say that too many gifts, too much money and too much "stuff" in the form of guest gift bags are examples of crass conumerism.

Others say they're only young once, and a fun party doesn't hurt anyone.

Do you feel that the birthday party scene in Edgewater and Davidsonville has become competitive?

What do you think is an appropriate birthday party for an elementary, middle, or high school child?