The beautiful Oscar nominee, Viola Davis, once commented that "it is not a part of our genetic make up to be happy for each other." A lesson she has learned on her life's journey. Is this true? I wondered. Many of us easily open up our compassionate hearts and extend helping hands to those in need. So why isn't it just as easy to raise our hands and applaud the efforts of those who are fortunate enough to actualize their dreams?
Perhaps we are threatened by the success of others because it leaves less excuses for us not to move beyond our own circumstances, beliefs and self-imposed limitations. Or maybe we are so busy yearning to be in the other person's place that we forget to appreciate our own unique gifts. We forget that superiority is an idea that society created, but it is such a barrier to living our full potential. We forget that stereotypes only tell a part of a culture's story. We forget that race is a social classification, not a biological one. We forget that each life has value and purpose.
There are many indications in nature that illustrate how fundamental cooperation and supportive efforts are to the greater good of the whole. Insects and plants interact in ways that are mutually beneficial. Lion prides, flocks of geese and indigenous cultures show us how all members of the group are essential in caring for their young. It is not just about survival. It's about learning and evolving. It's about building relationships and leaving this world with a certainty that we made a positive difference in the lives we touched.
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Many of us are able to step beyond our own interests and fulfillment to recognize that we are each an essential part of a greater whole. We realize that when we celebrate our neighbor's successes, we are in fact celebrating a part of ourselves. When we spend time building someone up as opposed tearing another down, we all climb to greater heights.