Summer Wedding Survival Guide

Getting married is a joyous but hectic event, and there are numerous things that can go wrong on the big day. Fortunately, taking the time to properly prepare will enable you to focus more on the positive aspects of your wedding, and it will also help minimize the potential issues that could come up as you are getting ready to walk down the aisle.

1. Plan Far in Advance – Everyone knows that wedding planning is something that should be done as far in advance as possible, but this summer just might be even more packed than ever before. After all, the Supreme Court will soon be making an announcement about the legality of same-sex marriage, and this may lead to a long list of couples that are looking for last-minute venues and other necessary details. According to the Washington Post, the same-sex marriage industry is expected to be worth $2.5 billion if the Supreme Court legalizes these unions throughout the country.

2. Be Flexible with Venue Planning – There is nothing wrong with trying to bring your dream outdoor wedding to life, but never forget that the weather might have other plans. By remaining flexible and having a fallback plan that you also love, you can avoid the stress and heartache that is associated with a rainy wedding day.

3. Consider Comfort – You may look stunning in those six-inch heels, but do you really want to be stuck wearing them for five or six hours? Instead of turning what should be the happiest day of your life into an excruciating experience, consider wearing those flashy heels for photos and the ceremony only. It has become very popular for grooms and brides to put on custom Converse for the reception, which will make your feet happy and give you the ability to dance the night away.

4. De-Stress before Your Vows – Saying “I do” is something that you will always remember, but there is no reason to allow the stress of the event to overwhelm you. Instead, make some time to pamper yourself either the day before or the day of the event. This could mean anything from taking time out to read a few chapters of your favorite book to making an appointment with a local massage therapist. In fact, massages are a medically-proven way to reduce stress, and 32.6 million Americans get at least one every year.

5. Forego Stressful Traditions – Another way to minimize the stress of your wedding is to skip any traditions that make you uncomfortable. For example, if you do not want to have dancing at your reception, you can do something completely different such as karaoke, a bonfire or board games instead. It is also important to think carefully about your guest list. Just because someone is a blood relative does not mean that they should be at your wedding, especially if they do not approve of your relationship with your soon-to-be spouse.

Novi brides and grooms to-be can definitely have a better wedding this summer by putting these tips into action. If you focus on getting all of the final planning done right now, you will not need to worry about any last-minute issues right before the wedding. Additionally, skipping stressful traditions, taking some time to relax and switching into comfortable shoes for the reception can all go a long way toward making your big day as wonderful as it is in your daydreams.

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