Driving Concerns and the Elderly

MediNurse, in its 30th year as the premier provider of private duty nursing in St. Louis, reminds the public that driver safety can be a sensitive issue for older drivers. A driver’s license signifies more than the ability to drive a car; it is a symbol of freedom and self-sufficiency. Understandably, driving is not a privilege that anyone wants to relinquish. Still, safety must come first.

If you need to talk to an elderly loved one about driving, remember:

· Plan ahead to have this life-changing discussion. Talk to your loved one’s physician for input and support.

· Be respectful. For many seniors, driving is an integral part of independence. Express your understanding of your loved one’s desires, while making it very clear that you have some concerns.

· Give specific examples. Outline concerns, and be specific. Use phrases such as “You have a hard time turning your head,” or “You braked suddenly at stop signs the last time we drove.”

· Find strength in numbers. If other family members or close friends speak up about your loved one’s driving skills, it’s less likely to be taken as nagging. An impartial party, such as a doctor, can also help.

· Help find alternatives. Offer concrete help, such as researching transportation options or offering rides when possible. Call senior organizations and ask questions. Is there a nearby bus line, or can you establish an account with a taxi cab company?

· Understand the difficulty of the transition. Your loved one might experience a profound sense of loss when giving up driving. Don’t dismiss those feelings, and try to help with the transition as much as possible. For example, if it is safe, begin by suggesting that your loved one drive only during daylight hours. Then you can gradually help them to adjust to alternate modes of transportation.

· Talk to a home nursing agency to find out what options are available to help your loved one to get around.

MediNurse, St. Louis’ premier provider of private duty nursing services, can provide transportation and companionship for doctor visits, grocery shopping or an afternoon at the movies. MediNurse provides services that are customized to the individual needs of the client or patient and loved ones to ensure the best care possible. For more information, call 314-781-2800 or visit www.medinurse.com.