Tip #1: something simple in absurd quantities
In our home, 2011 was the year of the punching balloons and bouncy balls. Sure a couple bouncy balls would be fun, but two dozen per child made for a Christmas morning full of giggles. The girls were wildly entertained, but maybe dozens of balls bouncing down three flights of stairs simultaneously just won't do in your house. The gift can be any small, simple thing. The key is the quantity. That is what makes the moment special.
Tip #2: pick a theme
Receiving a group of themed gifts can be more exciting than receiving the same gifts individually. Examples:
Art: paints, paint brushes, glue sticks, pom poms, popsicle sticks, googly eyes
Astronomy: telescope, glowing star stickers, star map
Baking: apron and child-size utensils, cupcake cups, cake decorating tools, cake/cupcake toppers
Exploring: telescope, magnifying glass, binoculars, pocket-sized books that identify birds or plants or bugs or rocks, tweezers, small bags to collect things
Dress-up: jewelry, boa, scarves, glasses eye patch, gloves, cape
Tip #3: one toy with a lot of small parts
For example, buy a box of toy food or a box that contains a bunch of small cars or figures. Rather than receiving a box full of toys, receiving items individually encourages your child to see each item as a special gift. In a world where our children are so often blessed to have so much, children learn to appreciate and find value in each item. Plus, a box of toys may get one big smile, but think of the joy on your child's face as they reach their hand into their stocking not knowing what wonderful toy they will find next. Smiles times 20!
Tip #4: create a tradition
For my kids, I buy handmade candy from a local candy store that has been in business for nearly 100 years. I have fond memories of the store as a child. It is a very special place, especially at Christmas time. I hope that as my children grow up and start families of their own, they will continue the tradition of buying handmade candy canes for their children. Tradition is a gift that gives for a lifetime.
