Martial Art Instruction Strengthens Family Bond

When Ken Warren first attended lessons at the Traditional Tae-Kwon Do center in Cranford to keep himself in shape, he didn't realize he was also initiating a process that would eventually draw his young family closer together.

Years later Ken, his wife Therese and his three children Steven, Bridget and Kevin, all practice the sport in Cranford and have enjoyed increased family unity as a result.

"The children have a nice bond, and oftentimes we reference some of the tenets of Tae-Kwon Do," Ken said.

Therese agreed and lauded instructor Robert Schneider for teaching more than just how to kick or throw a punch.The children show more confidence and self-esteem. They have also had opportunities to hone leadership skills, she added.

Ken agreed and believes the lessons provide intangible benefits beyond exercise.

"While they're learning something physically and getting in shape, they are also learning values," he said.

The young Tae-Kwon Do students, who all attend Tamaques Elementary School, Westfield, said they have enjoyed their experiences at the center so far.

"At the beginning it  was all pretty hard to understand," said Steven, who will be going into the fifth grade and has studied Tae Kwon Do for four years. "I gain a lot of confidence and it's a lot of exercise. He makes it pretty tough, but it's really fun."

For Bridget, a fourth grader who has studied at the center for three years, one of the toughest parts was learning Korean terminology used in classes. But she enjoyed learning about the five the tenets of Tae-Kwon Do which include courtesy, integrity, perseverance, self-control and indomitable spirit.

"We don't have just do them and say them in class, but use them everywhere," she said.

Steven and Bridget were both attending a progress report class July 21. They currently have senior yellow belts and are hoping to earn their green belts.

Kevin, who will begin the first grade in the fall, also enjoys the courses and the instructing style of Schneider.

"He's very funny," Kevin said.

Schneider,  who has been instructing in the area since 1995 and began his involvement with Tae-Kwon Do in 1971, said he appreciated the patronage of the family and for allowing him to be a part of the children's growth.

"The Warren family has always been a huge supporter of our school from the very beginning," Schneider said. "I really appreciate their trust for allowing me to teach their children and watch them grow up and be a part of their development.

"There have been a few instances to have families, its not uncommon, but to have them stay so long is something else," he added.

The Traditional Tae-Kwon Do center offers programs for children ages 4-6, 7-13 and an adult program. In addition, the center offers seminars in child safety, anti-bullying and women's self defense courses.