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Barbara Love, Ridgewood Lesbian And Gay Rights Activist, Dies At 85

"She was fearless in fighting for civil rights and acceptance of lesbian and gay people," Love's obituary reads.

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RIDGEWOOD, NJ — A feminist and lesbian rights activist who regarded herself as "loud in all the right places" passed away, her obituary published by a Ridgewood funeral home said.

Barbara Love — a writer, educator and Ridgewood community member who fought for the rights of lesbian and gay people — died of complications from leukemia and Parkinson's disease on Nov. 13, her obituary said. She was 85.

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"She was fearless in fighting for civil rights and acceptance of lesbian and gay people," her obituary reads. "Her many achievements continue to influence and inspire."

A founding member of the National Gay Task Force in 1973, Love received a commendation from the group in 1982 "for working tirelessly to educate about gay and lesbian concerns," her obituary said.

Love was appointed in 1977 by the Carter administration as a New York delegate to the National Women's Conference, and co-founded the nonprofit AIDS Project Greater Danbury in 1982 to provide support services to those living with HIV/AIDS, her obituary said.

She is also a co-founder of Identity House, a peer counseling group for those identifying as LGBTQ, and of Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG), a support organization also allied with LGBTQ people.

She has authored four books, including "Feminists Who Changed America, 1963-1975," the "first comprehensive directory" documenting founders and leaders of the second wave women's movement, a summary said.

Love is survived by her wife, Donna Smith.

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