My dad’s idea of being on time was always 10 minutes early. We always found my dad waiting in the car for us, ready to go. Come hell or high water, we had to be on time!
A few years ago, my parents were visiting us and we were all getting ready for dinner. I was getting impatient (yes, me!) and telling my children to hurry up..."We’re going to be late,” I said. My dad was already waiting outside and I’m getting more agitated by the second. So, I went into yelling mode…yelling at anyone and everyone to finish getting ready and get outside. Finally, we’re all outside and I turned to my father and said, “See what you’ve done to me! I’ve become you!” Yup, I’ve become a complete nut when it comes to promptness.
There is, however, something to be said for the person who always tries to be on time, especially when there is someone waiting for you. It’s about having respect for other people’s time. It shows people that your time isn’t more valuable than theirs. It shows responsibility and professionalism. It’s simple good etiquette.
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Is this always an easy task? No. There are always hiccups along the way. Involve kids, and increase your hiccups times ten. Try to get ready a little early, so if those little problems occur along the way, you’re prepared.
Am I passing on my obsessive behavior about tardiness to my children? You bet I am. I know that I’m raising children that will understand the importance of being on time. One day they’ll get it and appreciate it…and blame me!