The American Family

Again I’m a layman of life and the American experiment.  I started these articles with the Economy and I now would like to talk to you about the American family and how the American family is the base of the success of America.  I know it is hard for families today to make ends meet and we have a lot of worries and sleepless nights.  We worry about the bills, our jobs and kids. 

Our family has been beaten and abandon by our government over the past 50 years.  Our government has tried to become the father and husband of unwedded mothers and children without a father.   The government has hurt the family nucleus with their big government ideals.  The government is not to be a mother or father; they are to be a protection for the fundamental rights of people and the civilization there in.  The American family for the longest time was the nucleus of a mother, father, kids and grandparents. As you grow up and started your family your brothers and sisters would be down the street and when you had a problem you went to them and not to the government.  Our founders understood that
for this family to grow it started at the kitchen table with the heart of a mother, the hand of a father and the Holy Bible guiding the way.  The government has made it hard for the family to stay together.  If you need help and you are a single mother you get more help than if you were married.  To have a stronger family and neighborhoods we need to get the government to support the family and not other agendas. 

The government is not the only group that needs to be pointed out with blame.  The church needs to also take some responsibility.  The church in the 60’s locked themselves in their buildings and let the world go to hell.  Now some of the denominations to get people in will say anything to them.  It is OK to be homosexual; it’s ok to have sex without being married and having kids.  They also tell their people that the government is the place to go to get help.  Our
founders knew that a strong believe in God would be the best way to have morals
and values in this country.  They knew that government could not control the heart of men.  They also knew taken God out of the town square would lead to the downfall of America.

We need as free Americans citizens to take responsibility for our actions and stand up for our families, friends and neighbors.  It is not about a party or the government here, it is about us as individuals taken responsibility for our actions and families.

 A mother even if she works has to find time to be with her kids and show them what love is and how they should be talked to and treating each other.  A Husband should also spend time with their children.   A father needs to show love and strength.  He also needs to show the sons how to respect a lady.  One way is by treating his wife with love and understanding.  He also needs to show the sons women are not sex objects and that a wife is a gift from God.  A father also has to
show to his daughters how a boy should and will treat them and if it is not with respect then they need to walk away and leave him. 

The American family is not just blood relations any more, through the years we have grown closer as a group of people in our neighborhoods and with our friends. This is the best way to take care of the family and local communities. 
If we the people stand together in love of God and country we can weather any storm.  We the people move faster to take care of our families and neighbors then some government official hundreds or thousands of miles away that only see you as a number and not like your family and neighbors who know you. 

We need to take part in helping each other by watching out for one another and helping each other.  Again this is where the churches come in.  The church is the only true community organizer.  They are to be the heart beat and the spiritual guidance of the people in the community.  They are to show the love of the first father.  Father God the creator of man and family.  They need to get involved in their community and help clean it up.  I’m not saying they need to do it by
themselves, I’m saying help motivate all the families in the community to take
part in cleaning it up and standing for what is right. 

We have strong men out there that want to be great fathers and we have mothers out there that are fighting each day to make sure their children grow up to be great people.  We don’t need the government to help with the raising of our children we need the government to just get out of our way and let us take control of our God given rights and destiny.  I have faith in the American people and the family as a whole that when we put our faith and hope again in the hands of God, then the healing of this land will start.