Why Bill Wheeler Loves Living at Maris Grove

Bill Wheeler enjoyed living in a 55-plus community near Wilmington, Del., but he wanted a more active, social lifestyle in retirement. So, he started searching for retirement communities that offer plenty of activities and opportunities to connect with neighbors.

He found everything he was looking for--and more--at Maris Grove, an Erickson Senior Living community in Pennsylvania's Brandywine Valley.

Maris Grove residents have dozens of clubs and activities to choose from, spanning a range of interests like writing, square dancing, billiards, canasta, and photography. The community also boasts industry-leading amenities, including a fitness center, salon and day spa, art studios, woodshop, performing arts center, library, and more.

Recently, Bill sat down with Tribune to share why he made the move, why he's loving community life now, and how he knows he made the right decision.

Tribune: What led you to Maris Grove?

Bill: The biggest reason was socialization. The community I lived in before only had about 96 residents in separate homes, and people generally stayed in those homes. There were nice people there, but there weren't many activities or opportunities to socialize. I enjoy being around people, so I wanted more ways to connect with others.

I was attracted to Maris Grove because of its size and the opportunity to meet lots of interesting people. It's also close enough to Wilmington that I can stay involved in the community where I lived my entire life while becoming part of this one, too. I was hoping for a more active social life, and that's exactly what I found here!

Tribune: Has it been easy to meet people and make new friends?

Bill: It definitely has. You become part of the neighborhood--there are people to say hello to, people to dine with, and people to spend time with.

One of the things I enjoy most is simply getting to know people and hearing their stories. There are more than 1,700 residents here, which means there are more than 1,700 interesting stories to discover.

Tribune: How has your maintenance-free residence impacted your retirement?

Bill: It gives me freedom. I'm currently working on a very large project: Writing a book related to my former career as a financial advisor. Because I don't have to worry about maintenance and repairs, I have much more time to devote to it.

Tribune: What are some ways you've gotten involved on campus?

Bill: Ballroom dancing is one of my favorite activities--I've been ballroom dancing for 17 years. I've become one of the leaders of the dance group here. I help provide instruction on different dances.

The other activity that's especially meaningful for me is hosting monthly dinners for new residents. Another resident and I invite people who have recently moved in to enjoy dinners in Maris Grove's private dining rooms. It's fun to welcome them and help them make connections early on.

I'm also involved with the veterans' club. Recently, I participated on a panel at a local high school where students were studying the Vietnam War era. It was rewarding to share that perspective with them.

Tribune: How has your move to Maris Grove provided peace of mind?

Bill: Having security staff [trained in emergency response] available is incredibly reassuring. I've experienced occasional episodes of lightheadedness over the years. Before moving here, I would have called 911. At Maris Grove, I simply called the security team, and someone arrived within minutes. They checked my vital signs and reassured me that everything was fine. That kind of response provides tremendous peace of mind.

I also appreciate knowing that if my health needs change in the future, there are additional levels of care available right here on campus. I have three sons, so it's comforting to know that they won't have to suddenly rearrange their lives to care for me.

Tribune: What would you tell someone who is considering a move to Maris Grove?

Bill: I would tell them that the additional opportunities for socialization and activity make a tremendous difference! And perhaps even more important is the peace of mind that comes from knowing help is available, if and when you need it. Instead of facing health concerns alone, you know there are people here to support you.

For me, Maris Grove has provided friendships, purpose, and the freedom to spend my retirement doing the things I enjoy most.

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By Julia Collins