Learn How to Interview Your Next Au Pair

To my new Host Families in the RI area, here are some tips for your next interview.

First, be sure to set up the interview via email first, so the time change can be considered and you are not calling in the middle of the night on either person's end, if possible. Plan on more than one in-person/Skype interview. Make a list of questions you want to ask.

Start with general questions like why the person wants to be an au pair and move to more specific questions as you go on. Doing this will help decide if the person is more interested in travel and taking classes in America than furthering their childcare-related education or career.

Next, consider asking open-ended questions that require more than a yes-no answer so that you can assess the person's English skills yourself, as well as get detailed answers to questions about things like driving or swimming skills. 

Be considerate, though, of the nerves of an interview via Skype, including possible pauses in the connection. An au pair may struggle to find the exact English word, but don't let that be a deal-breaker. In fact, don't let your own preconceived expectations limit your search. 

Summer Blackhurst wrote a great piece about how to know if it might not be the best match, right from the interview. Check it out here.

When you give the au pair a chance to ask questions at some point, look for questions about the children or daily routine. A person who can fit into your existing family routine is going to be a better match than someone expecting an experience totally different than your lifestyle. 

Finally, be clear about specific duties and expectations, the area you live (rural vs. urban), and any special needs of your children. If you live in a rural area, I strongly recommend allowing your au pair use of the vehicle during off-duty time. This will encourage some independence and prevent the au pair from feeling trapped at the house.

We have lots more tips for you, but that should get you started. Apply now, I'll come out and review the regulations with the adults living in the home, and your au pair can start right after that!

My name is Joan Lowell, LAR (Local Area Rep) in the Providence area; please contact me at jlowell@goaupair.com or 401-309-1925 with your questions. Visit www.goaupair.com/Providence to inquire about our Locals Only discount!