A Parent's Guide to Prom Flowers

Elm Grove, Wis. – “Hey Dad, I need to get flowers for my prom date. Can you help me?”

The question might cause trepidation (if not outright fear) in the minds of many parents. It’s been decades since they ordered prom flowers. Things have probably changed, right? Is it done differently now? Do kids still get the same flowers as when I was in high school?

Florists are used to parents walking in with their kids at prom season. The conversation often opens with “I haven’t done this for 30 years …” Thankfully, while floral options are indeed more wide and numerous, some things haven’t changed.

“The main place to start is the all important question: What does her dress look like?” said Denise Barnett, co-owner of Snapdragon Flowers of Elm Grove. “Almost every girl, and most boys, have a picture of the dress on their phones these days. Thank goodness for technology!”

Parents might be surprised by the choices available to prom-goers. The pin-on shoulder corsage, long a standby, is less common due to the popularity of strapless dresses. Wrist corsages often take top billing. Nosegay bouquets, made of tightly-bound flowers, are a popular choice.

Trend-forward options have gained traction, too. Flowers can be worn on the upper arm, crest of the shoulder, and even as a crown. Long-handled scepter bouquets are seen.

Besides styles of arrangements, the variety of flowers used has blossomed. Roses and orchids are still common, yet modern creations can incorporate wildflowers, hypericum berries and even succulents. Decorative wire, ribbons and even feathers add accent texture.

“For boys who aren’t sure where to start, we usually recommend the safe choice of a wrist corsage,” Barnett said. “Today’s teen girls are vocal and confident enough that, if they prefer something different, they’ve already told their date about it.”

For girls shopping, boutonnieres remain the hands-down favorite to complement boys’ outfits. Floral pocket squares offer an on-trend alternative.

“A good florist is happy to guide both teens and their parents through the selection process,” Barnett said. “The experience should be painless and, dare we say it, even fun!”

The only caveat? Order a few weeks ahead, if possible, to get the perfect floral accompaniment. Last-minute requests can still usually be accommodated a few days out.

Located at 13458 Watertown Plank Road, in the heart of downtown Elm Grove, Snapdragon Flowers provides fresh, beautiful flowers and plants for people, events and occasions throughout southeastern Wisconsin. Its unique, innovative arrangements and designs are destined to bring smiles when desired, and comfort when needed. More information is available by calling (262) 782-8380 or visiting www.elmgroveflowershop.com.