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I Love You, You Drive Me Crazy!

Do you ever feel driven crazy by your partner or people you love? If so, come to a special event January 3rd at 1:00 in Davis...

What drives you crazy in your relationship?

We ask a lot of couples and singles this question, and time after time, we hear ...

“She never closes the doors, so bugs get in the house...”
“He never keeps his agreements ...”
“She’s always on me about cleaning up ...”

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“He doesn’t call me often enough...”
“She talks to me when I’m working ... “
“He drives too close to other cars ...”

You relate?

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Here’s the thing: Whenever you start a “conversation” [read: fight/argument/bickering] like that, there’s a second conversation going on in the background, which is totally unrelated to the topic you’re “discussing”.

This second conversation is always a real “Ouch!”, like knife-in-the-heart kind of “ouch”! Until you discover this second conversation, it’s just going to keep hurting.

If you’d like to know what’s REALLY going on in the background when you fight and argue, even about the smallest stuff, come join us and learn more about what to do when you feel, “I Love You - You Drive Me Crazy”.

Discover what you are REALLY fighting about!

In this light-hearted couple of hours, you will discover ...

- The comically inefficient relationship improvement strategy everyone uses (you probably used it today!)

- What is really behind fights and arguments (it’ll blow your mind)

- How to raise your “love ceiling” and feel more loved

- Practical tools for staying in love (you’ll use them forever!)

We have had couples on the verge of divorce or separation shift from animosity to love from this evening alone. And singles have shifted from feeling resigned to hopeful.

Here is what one woman shared after our last event: “Thank you for last night. It was life changing. I feel so much more equipped. Not so much in the dark groping around and screwing things up. No joke… I was ready to be done [with my relationship] before coming to your event last night. Thank you!!” Francine

Bring your partner and friends! January 3rd at the Unity Center of Davis at the Veteran’s Memorial Building, 203 E. 14th Street, Davis. 1:00-3:30 p.m. $10 and all proceeds go to the non-profit Unity.

For couples AND singles!

Sonika & Christian, dynamic husband-wife team, have over 35 years combined experience coaching thousands of singles and couples, profoundly transform their relationships. Loveworksforyou.com

“I have been to couples’ counselor, several psychologists and therapists, life coaches and none of them speak as loud as you two do about true relationships.”

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