Health & Fitness
Handling Criticism
What's the best way to deal with words that wound? A wonderful perspective on how to handle criticism.
In my search for knowledge on the web --- of which there is plenty --- I stumbled upon this post by Garret. I encourage you to read the full post on his blog. Here is a summary though:
- There is a difference between constructive criticism and pure negativity
- Firstly, keep it in context. Getting criticism is rarely pleasant, yet the fact that you’re receiving it at all is a sign people care.
- Secondly, never confuse volume with quality.
- Thirdly, recognise the difference between fact and opinion.
- Fourthly, remember that the critic rarely has the full story.
- It’s important to recognise that at the heart of any criticism there’s always some valuable point of feedback.
By recognizing and accepting that criticism is a valuable and inextricable piece of the creative process, you can control your response and how it affects you. Once you can do that, the rest is a cakewalk.