Insecure boy?

Being a teenage boy is a challenging task because of all of the pressures and stereotypes young men feel they have to live up to. When watching TV, reading a magazine, or walking in the mall, the media does a good job advertising to the insecurities of young men and the culture of males. Men are very competitive and it is believed bigger is better or stronger is better. Looks aren't everything either. Your son needs to know about the tricks advertisers use to increase the attractiveness factor of a model (i.e., photo shopping images, lighting, camera angles, makeup, etc. I think most of us know it isn't entirely true when talking about what a real man is. I think what is most important and a key ingredient in a young teen boys life is a male role model. A good question to ask is who are the people exemplifying a healthy and balanced life for the teen boy?  A good father, father figure, mentor, or male role model of some sort will be very beneficial for a young man. A formal relationship with an adult who is caring and nurturing can be a turning point to helping a teen boy foster strong character and positive behaviors.