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Ruth D. Hardy, 100, of Milford, passed away on March 31, 2025.

Ruth had two great callings in her life—spreading the word of God and being a devoted mother.

Ruth D. Hardy, 100, of Milford, CT, passed away peacefully on March 31, 2025, while surrounded by her loving family. Ruth was the very first baby born in Milford, CT, on January 1,

1925, to her parents James and Jeannie Hyndman. Ruth (Ruby) was the beloved wife of William

Donald Hardy for 62 years.

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Ruth had two great callings in her life—spreading the word of God and being a devoted mother.

She and her husband answered their calling by joining the Christian & Missionary Alliance in

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1955, embarking on a 16-year mission in Thailand. There, Ruth became fluent in Thai and

embraced the culture wholeheartedly while sharing her faith and offering aid to those in need.

During their time abroad, they adopted their two beloved children, James and Janice, raising

them with the same deep love and faith that guided their own lives. In 1970, the family returned

to New England, where Ruth and her husband continued their ministry work.

Faith remained the cornerstone of Ruth’s life. She was deeply involved at Calvary Alliance

Church in Milford, CT, where she played in a musical quartet, helped run the Senior Citizens’

Ministry, and volunteered for countless church events. A talented pianist and organist, Ruth’s

love for music was unwavering—even when she could no longer play, she invited friends to

perform in her home so she could continue enjoying live music.

Beyond her faith and music, Ruth had a generous and nurturing spirit. She lovingly cared for her

husband in his later years and had an immense love for animals, sharing her home with cats,

dogs, and even a pet monkey named Jingles. Above all, she was a devoted mother. In the words

of her children, "We couldn’t have asked for a better mother, and she will be dearly missed.”

Ruth is survived by her son James Bryan Hardy (wife Kathleen) and daughter Janice Hardy Lynn

(husband William). Five cherished grandchildren: Jennifer Hardy, James Hardy, Rachel Hardy,

William Hardy, and Thomas Lynn. As well as many beloved great grandchildren, nieces, and

nephews. In addition to her husband and parents, she is predeceased by her nine siblings.

Family and friends are invited to gather on Saturday, April 26, 2025, from 10 to 11 a.m. at

Calvary Alliance Church, 273 Orange Ave, Milford, CT 06461 (Please meet directly at church).

A Service will begin at 11 a.m. with reception to follow in the Church Fellowship Hall

downstairs.

To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to:

Calvary Alliance Church, 273 Orange Ave, Milford, CT 06461

CMALLIANCE.org (The Christian and Missionary Alliance Overseas Ministries – Thailand)

COMPASSUS.com (COMPASSUS Hospice 612 Wheelers Farms Road Milford, CT. 06461)

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