The Penny Loafer: On Monogramming

I'm mad for my MCM monogram.  

As a proud preppy, I'd choose my initials over a logo or brand name any day. I have MCM embroidered on bath towels, etched on picture frames, and even stitched out in nautical flags on a needlepoint belt.

Coach's C's and Louis Vuitton's LV's can come and go as trends wax and wane, but my initials never go out of style.

Part of the reason a monogram is so appealing to us preppies is because there's not a ton of variety in classic, conservative clothing and accessories. Preppy men wear khaki trousers, blue button downs, and navy blazers day in and day out. That can get old and blah quickly. But adding three discreet little letters can take that standard uniform and make it all yours. Initials embroidered on a shirt cuff—always on the left side—can add a burst of color and a punch of personalization to an otherwise ordinary button down.

While still understated, women's monograms on clothing are typically larger and more visible. I have a number of turtlenecks and sweaters monogrammed on the left-hand side in the upper chest area (where with polo pony or alligator would be). One time I forgot my I.D. but managed to talk my way into a party by showing the doorman my monogrammed sweater, thus "proving" my identity as the only MCM on the list.

Monograms are a stylish addition to anyone's wardrobe, but they should be used sparingly, like horseradish in a Bloody Mary. A monogrammed sweater worn with a monogrammed belt buckle accessorized with monogrammed slippers while carrying a monogrammed key ring is way too much initial action. Keep it restrained—an outfit that includes a small monogram on a cable-knit sweater and a subtle signet ring is plenty.

As for formats, there are three basic ways to monogram: block, diamond, and single letter.

The block method lists the three initials in order (first, middle, last) with all letters the same size. This works well on luggage, tote bags, wallets, and key rings. It's also the most masculine of the lot, so it's the go-to format for most men's items.

The diamond method lists the first, last, and middle initials in that order with the last name being the largest. This lends itself perfectly to oval or round signet rings, linens, and cuff links. You can make it more flowery for a woman by adding swirls and curls to either side of the initials, or you can keep it no-nonsense by just adding < > to either side of the monogram.

The single letter monogram simply lists the first initial of your last name. This is perfect for items that are used by the entire family like hand towels, cocktail glasses, and doormats. Depending on the item you could leave the letter completely plain, or if you want to jazz it up you could add a simple box border around the initial.

Since monograms are of the old school there are certain things they're best left off of, like anything technological. Modern inventions are wonderful, but until Apple starts making personalized needlepoint iPhone covers, it's best to keep your initials off your smartphone and on your highball glass.

Melissa C. Morris writes about preppy style for New Canaan Patch. She also has her own blog, www.melissacmorris.com.