West Hartford Author to Share Practical Guidance on Connecting with Loved Ones Living with Dementia

West Hartford resident John Scully understands firsthand the heartbreak—and hope—of loving someone living with dementia.

For the final eight years of her life, Scully’s mother was nonverbal. During her 13 years in a nursing home, he struggled to find meaningful ways to connect with her and with other residents—until he discovered approaches that changed everything.

Now, Scully shares those lessons in his acclaimed book, Visited Mom Today: Conversations Through the Lens of Alzheimer’s and Dementia (Green Heart Living Press, 2024), offering families practical tools and renewed perspective on what connection can look like—even in the face of memory loss.

On Wednesday, May 13 at 4:30 PM, Scully will speak at Benchmark at Newtown, an Assisted Living and Mind & Memory Care community. During the program, he will offer inspiration, practical communication strategies, encouragement and even moments of humor for families navigating dementia.

More than 200,000 people in Connecticut are impacted by dementia, whether living with the disease themselves or caring for someone who is. Scully’s message centers on stepping into the world of a loved one with memory impairment rather than trying to pull them back into ours.

Located a few minutes from I-84 across the street from St. Rose of Lima Church, Benchmark at Newtown’s care spans independent assisted living to memory care assisted living.

Their personalized Mind & Memory Care program for those living with Alzheimer’s and other forms of dementia is delivered within a cozy, thoughtfully designed secure neighborhood that fosters both independence and meaningful connection. Specially trained associates provide 24/7, needs-based care in private apartments, complemented by engaging daily programs that support cognitive function and overall well-being.

Residents also benefit from dedicated assisted living with memory care services alongside specialized amenities; all set within a modern farmhouse-inspired environment. Spacious, light-filled living areas feature distinctive elements and a secure outdoor courtyard, creating a warm, inviting setting that promotes health, comfort and quality of life.

Benchmark at Newtown is located at 2 The Blvd in Newtown. The event is complimentary however, space is limited and RSVP is required. For more information or to RSVP, contact Mary DeGennaro at 203.491.3036 or email mdegennaro@benchmarkquality.com.