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Do-Over Steps to Living YOUR Best Single Life

Does it get any easier adjusting to being single? With the shift to a positive creative mindset your feelings begin to change.

Do-Over Steps to Living YOUR Best Single Life

I am often asked…Does it get any easier adjusting to being single? The answer is…NO, but how you're feeling within begins to change.

What you start to learn is being single is creating a new life for yourself. With the shift to a positive creative mindset it can be a life filled with new adventures and awesome beginnings.

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Can you imagine your new single life as a “Do-Over”? Well it’s true, so how do we shift to the positive creative mindset?

Instead of thinking our lives are over, we begin to see through new eyes as we begin to think, What if…

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Here are a few steps to get you on the way…

When I look in the mirror do I like what I see?

  • Hair cut/color
  • Clothes
  • Makeup/Shave
  • Weight

Switch it up! All of this can be changed/adjusted to begin a new you! Change your hair do, shop for some new clothes, switch out your makeup (guys shave or not, check out the new look in facial hair).

I know what we hate to hear most is …EXERCISE! Find some type of exercise you enjoy. It can be a sport or simply walking on the beach each weekend, but some form of exercise is needed to keep us healthy and strong both physically and mentally.

What are you putting into your mind?

  • What are you watching on TV?
  • What are you reading?
  • What are you listening to?
  • What are you saying?

Our minds feed our soul! If you want to change what you are feeling on the inside, you must begin to experience a positive mindset change and that starts with what you are putting inside. Begin to watch, read and listen to absorb the positive and your actions will begin to take a positive shape. *Be sure to listen 24/7 to WGSN-DB Going Solo Network – Singles Internet Talk/TV station www.wgsndb.com

What are you doing with your time? Get out of the house…

  • Meet new people/make friends
  • Explore a new hobby
  • Take a class/begin to learn something new
  • Travel (Begin your Bucket List)

Our hearts although healing and somewhat idle need connection! We need to feel inspired, creative, adventurous and most of all connected with others. When we allow ourselves the freedom to explore, enjoy and discover we begin to shape a new life we never knew existed.

We begin to change our lives to what we want it to be. Through living our lives rather than existing we choose who we want to grow to be…Awesome!

Cece Shatz, Divorce/Dating/Relationship Coach, Radio Personality of WGSN-DB Going Solo with Cece, (Live Tuesday at 8:30 pm on WGSN-DB Going Solo Network FB Page) Founder of WGSN-DB Going Solo Network Radio/TV – Internet Single Talk station www.wgsndb.com and Going Solo Network a social interactive singles community.

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