R-E-S-P-E-C-T

It comes as no surprise that I have always thought respect and holding human beings in esteem is an important and common decency -- every living being or thing should be treated with care - acknowledged as unique and revered for what they bring to this world. But, I recently read an article that adds new reasons why respect is important. The title of the article, written by a physician was, "In a Culture of Disrespect, Patients Lose Out". He shared some good examples where the end result was that the system of care broke down and the patient didn't get the care, or, worse yet, was exposed to unsafe or neglectful care. (http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/07/18/in-a-culture-of-disrespect-pati...)

I know in situations where someone doesn't show me respect, I try to avoid that person, minimize interaction or do the bare minimum so that I can get away from the situation. Environments were respect is lacking are toxic -- they don't encourage people to work together, do there best, and, ultimately view everyone and everything as important.

So, as a caregiver, if you see signs of disrespect in the environment, consider that environment as toxic --- and, no one should be placed in a toxic situation. Be brave and hold yourself and your loved one in high esteem, and, work to get rid of the toxins.

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