NPD117 Teacher Writes Children's Book

Dorn School teacher Gayle Farmer wrote her first children’s book that chronicles the journey of a boy named Andrew and his relationship with his father and grandfather.

The book, “Everybody Cries,” follows Andrew, a sensitive child whose father wants him to be strong and not overly emotional and encourages him to “be a big boy” and not cry over what he considers trivial matters.

However, the story takes a turn when Andrew’s beloved grandfather dies. Andrew experiences deep sadness but suppresses his tears, fearing his father’s disapproval. Andrew’s mother, understanding his grief, tries to console him and offers comfort during this difficult time.

Eventually, Andrew’s father comes to realize the error in his approach. He recognizes that his rigid definition of being a ‘big boy’ was misguided and that allowing emotions and expressing feelings are natural and important aspects of life.

This realization leads to a shift in his perspective and a newfound understanding of his son’s emotions.

Ms. Farmer said the book, which took about a year to write, explores empathy, understanding and the importance of emotional expression throughout the ups and downs of growing up while highlighting the transformative journey of Andrew and his father’s relationship as they navigate grief and personal growth together.

Ms. Farmer said she drew inspiration for the book from 35 years of teaching both general and special education students. “I have witnessed firsthand the importance of addressing social-emotional learning (SEL) with children.”

“The book not only resonates with children but also provides valuable insights for adults while delving into the sensitive topic of emotions, offering a thoughtful and engaging exploration through a little boy’s eyes,” Ms. Farmer said.

“As a district, we do so much social-emotional learning and focus on the emotions and feelings of children,” she said. “We’re constantly working with our students to get them to talk through their emotions.”

Ms. Farmer dedicated the book to NPD117 Supt. Jeannie Stachowiak in recognition of her 33 years of extraordinary service, guidance and compassionate spirit. “In the extensive field of education, you stand out as a visionary, keeping the welfare of the children at the forefront, their dreams and aspirations driving every decision.”