Two Parts Donuts, One Part Dads Equals Quality Time For Kids

Who knew a few donuts could make such a difference.

A group of students and their fathers gathered before school on Friday at Chatsworth Elementary School, ostensibly for circular-shaped treats. But the event was really a bonding exercise in disguise.

The event was for the students in the school's Star Team, a special education program that emphasizes social skills. 

"It's a nice opportunity for social growth for the students," said Joan Ledvina Parr, school psychologist. "It really gives these parents particular opportunity to connect with the school because this is not their home school."

Linwood Baxter, father of fifth grader Trevor, said such events help him stay connected with his son's teachers and the school's activities. 

"I try to give my input in whatever's going on," he said. "I make sure I come to these [events]."

Many of the school's Star Team students come from other towns to attend Chatsworth. The school also has a Muffins with Moms event and a special brotherhood event once a year in which parents come to the school for classroom activities, lunch and an assembly with student performances.

School representatives are delighted to have parents around.

"It's hard [to get parents to these events] because a lot of the parents work," said Marta Chaney, a school social worker. "It really makes the kids' day."

It was a no-brainer for fourth grader Sarah Hunt's father, David Thornhill.

"I made time," he said. "I'm normally at work about this time."

Principal Nancy Casalena hopes events like this one will make parents feel welcome at the school.

"It's really good to keep the home-school connection," she said. "Hopefully they get a nice, warm feeling."