Grieving our Trials...

Thought and Poem – January 24, 2015

No one ever wants to believe that one day we may grow old, get sick, and die. For some death may come unexpectedly and sooner than anyone would ever wish. And of all the trials we may face in our lifetime, the death of someone we love, either because of sickness, violence, natural disasters or war, death seems to hit us the hardest.

For a period of time, we may be in shock or even in a state of denial. However a person responds, there will be a time where we grieve. Each of us will grieve in our own way and there is no time limit on how long a period this will entail. What we should know is that we ought not to judge how someone deals with their emotions for their loss. If tears wish to be shed, let them fall. If silent moments are needed, then quiet times may need to be respected.

Death of a loved one makes me wonder, how much time is cut off from a life because of the stresses we cause each other, or by some who do not get the medications or treatments they need to maintain a desired quality of life. All these thoughts truly show we should try harder to be willing to comfort those in their times of need and to do what we can to lessen the pain endured. If we physically cannot do anything to help, can we not pray for those needing comfort?

What about you? What ways do you find comfort the most when someone is grieving trials and how do you benefit from what you offer to others? Share your thoughts with us…Jeanne Claire Probst

Grieving Our Trials

When tears empty from the depths of your heart,

It is hard to stop them when they start.

Never should we allow “what ifs” to hold back what our heart is feeling during a trial we may face,

It is important for healing that we allow our true emotions to be exposed and not be hidden or misplaced.

No one really ever knows the degree, in which we choose to grieve,

It is not for someone else to judge or questions how, or what we believe.

Only we know the steps we need to take,

That will help us endure the trials that will test our faith.

Cry if you must, and we will cry with you,

Rejoice when progress is made, and we will share your joy too,

Try to keep a positive outlook and never lose sight of hope,

Trust in your love for God, his plan for you and allow him to comfort and help you to cope.

Prayers and more prayers will be said to help you get through each moment of the day,

Hugs, love and more love and hugs we will keep sending your way.

We will of course wish the best outcome for you and your family,

God has your best interest in mind, and always remember he will give you the strength to help you in your time of need.

Jeanne Claire Probst