Bullying Statistics, Strategies, Stories In Chatham Schools

CHATHAM, NJ - October is National Bullying Prevention Month, and the Chatham School District is getting students involved in stomping out bullying.

The Anti-Bullying Bill of Rights Act requires that the week beginning with the first Monday in October of each year be designated as the Week of Respect in New Jersey.

Chatham is participating in the Week of Respect and School Violence Awareness Week. According to Luiz Pereira of the New Jersey State Department of Education, the program offers New Jersey schools an opportunity to concentrate on this effort by delivering age-appropriate instruction to students on these essential topics.

In Chatham, the Week of Respect began with students adding a message to a gratitude wall and continued with a "pay it forward" that encourages random acts of kindness. The week also included thank you note writing and the creation of a gratitude journal.

Schools in New Jersey have some of the toughest anti-bullying regulations in the country, under the Anti-Bullying Bill Of Rights. Schools are required to report all instances of harassment, intimidation and bullying (known as HIB incidents), and provide detailed information about their bullying statistics.

For the 2015-2016 school year, which was the most recently available data, the School District of the Chathams reported 16 HIB incidents. The district self-reported that 15 of the incidents of bullying had a verbal component, one contained a gesture and one was an electronic communication.

Eight of the victims received counseling after the incident. Two of the perpetrators received counseling and seven were included in a parent conference.

You can view the complete report on the website.

The problem isn’t isolated to just New Jersey. National statistics vary, but an aggregate of 80 different studies on bullying suggests one in five American students between 12 and 18 is bullied at some point during their middle or high school years. Traditional bullying — name calling, public humiliation, isolation, physical violence and that sort of thing — occurs most often, with 35 percent of kids reporting they’ve been targeted in one of those ways. The studies cited by the PACER Center, which established National Bullying Prevention Month, show that 15 percent of kids surveyed report being cyberbullied.

Among the marquee National Bullying Prevention Month activities is Unity Day, observed on Wednesday, Oct. 23, when everyone is encouraged to wear and show orange to send a message that no child should ever experience bullying.

“Orange provides a powerful, visually compelling expression of solidarity,” Paula Goldberg, the executive director of the PACER Center, said in a statement. “Whether it’s hundreds of individuals at a school wearing orange, store owners offering orange products or a community changing a landmark to orange, the vibrant statement becomes a conversation starter, sending the supportive, universal message that bullying is never acceptable behavior.”

Here’s more about Unity Day:

Laws In New Jersey

Although New Jersey’s Anti-Bullying Bill Of Rights is one of the strictest anti-bullying laws in the nation, we could soon see the laws become even more stringent.

"Mallory's Law,"which aims to strengthen the current laws by forcing parental involvement, was recently approved unanimously by the State Senate.

Under the new bill, parents could face civil liabilities if they show "blatant disregard of supervising their child, [or] if their child has been judged to be delinquent of harassment or cyber harassment," a press release says, and parents would be subject to anti-bullying education classes.

The reporting and notification process for bullying incidents would be expanded: any accounts of bullying would be sent to the executive county superintendent and the parents of any students involved.

Any student found guilty of bullying would have the incident placed on their permanent record. After three proven bullying incidents, a student and their parents would be required to attend an anti-bullying training session, and law enforcement would be notified to see if any crimes were committed.

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With reporting by Deb Belt and Katie Kausch, Patch Staff

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