Greenporter Reviews VH1 Personality's Book for Debut 2012 Blog

Celebrate making mistakes — because that means you are one step closer to getting it right.

We are co-creators of our life with Him, so everything is happening for us, not to us. This year 2012 is the year of a fresh start learning from the lessons of 2011 this is the year to bring in a new change. I'm ready how, about you?

As the countdown began and 2011 was drawing near I was surrounded by a congregation of praise worshippers. In the church in which I attend New Year's Eve, we spent thanking our Higher Being for bringing us through whatever trials and tribulations that we faced that year, and just gave praise for making it over those obstacles.

As my eyes were closed the rewind button was hit in my mind replaying all the pain and sorrow that I had went through, which also showed how far I had come as a human being, woman, mother, and future wife. 

As I started to re-live these memories, tears flowed down my face because joy filled my body, and I knew it was all because of Him that I was here to see another year come in. But this time to be in the presence of the ones that I love so much.

The question then became: Are you ready to be made whole? My answer within me and then out of me became "YES." I have never been more ready to tackle life and live out my dreams. So I began to prepare my outline for the next six months, and the first goal is to have a new blog at least twice a week. With so much going on, I want to share with the community and grow CA Enterprise Inc. and the Y.E.S. program as major brands. So the first huge event that we have coming up is our interview with TV personality / entrepenuer Tionna Smalls.

Tionna Smalls is set to release her new book, "Men Love Abuse:The Guide to Losing the Image of Being the Nice Girl and Getting the Man You Want! (Talk Dat Ish Books; On-sale:Jan. 27.), From her Pocketbook series.

Smalls is best known as the relationship advisor on VH1's "What Chilli Wants"(season one and two), helping pop star and Grammy award winner Rozanda "Chilli" Thomas of the best selling R&B group in history, TLC, to find love. Following up to her successful award winning book, "Girl, Get Your Mind Right!" (HarperCollins, 2011), Smalls is tackling the issue of nice girls finishing last.

"Men Love Abuse" is a honest book helping women become strong when dating a man by telling them not to call too much or to not take any crap from any man. Smalls philosophy is: "be a b and you will get hitched." Men only understand strength, so if you want the guy, you better "abuse" him. Never the one to promote violenc , Tionna uses the word "abuse" as a metaphor to treating guys not too nice. The reader will leave feeling empowered and ready to take on any man they are dating or soon to date.

The rules are fun and easy, and Smalls breaks down the problems and solutions to any issue that may come up in a "ship" (friendship, courtship, or relationship). Along with this great book coming out, Tionna will also begin filming a dating show for a major network shortly. We will have the full interview with Tionna Smalls after Jan. 23.

This is the first of many more great things to come. I choose to start off with Tionna Smalls because she is a resident here on Long Island and her ambition to tackle this world is a great example for every young women coming up. Smalls is also a true representative of my companys mottoe, "Whatever one dreams and believes it can be achieved."