Moms Talk Q&A: Helping Kids with the PSSAs

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So grab a cup of coffee and settle in as we start the conversation today with a question from a Levittown-area mom:

We got a call from our school about our kids taking the PSSAs this week. I found the recorded message a little unsettling.

On one hand, we were told how important this test is for our kids. On the other hand, we're told that we should be encouraging. Now I'm worried that either I'm going to stress my kid out by making too big a deal out of it or going too far in the other direction by not making sure they are prepared. How do we balance that?