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The Camp Difference

What does it really mean to be a part of a Summer Camp Family, and what positive impact can it have on your kids, and family, this summer.

As another summer quickly approaches, I’ve had some time to reflect on how my relationship with camp changes as I get older and those closest to me start families of their own. I have always believed in, demonstrated, and vocalized the positive impact of camp to anyone who would listen, but as all things do, perspective starts to adjust with age. I don’t have to wait for an email, Parents Nights, or Summer Surveys to hear the life-changing impact stories. I now hear them from my friends at birthday parties or Sunday Coed Soccer games, and hopefully soon at family dinners!

For the past 17 years I’ve had the opportunity to work with my older brother Robbie (Waterfront Director). Rob created a culture of support, commitment, and inclusion at camp. He has influenced counselors to put campers’ needs before their own, to rejoice in the accomplishments of others, and to find opportunities for success in previous failures or mistakes. He has been an invaluable influence on camp and for the first time in 18 years he will not be returning. Rob became a father last summer.

I know our camp family will only become stronger as we continue to grow together and follow his example of listening first, acting with intention, and going the extra distance to make a difference. I am confident we will continue on this path of excellence because of the camp culture we have established, but also as a renewed commitment I am making as an uncle.

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As an uncle, I eagerly anticipate my niece’s first day at camp. I don’t how she’ll feel when she arrives. She might be bouncing in her bus seat waiting to meet new friends. She may be shy and a little weary about seeing so many new faces. I’m uncertain of her initial reactions, but I know she will be more than ok. I know she will have options to feel included. I know counselors will support her, laugh with her, and encourage her to reach outside her comfort zone. I know campers will ask her to play, sing songs with her when the mood strikes, or give her needed encouragement as she tries new activities. I anticipate my niece’s success because of our continued commitment to making Camp Ingersoll home for all!

Campers arrive for their first day happy, sad, excited and anxious but, by the end of first period, all campers understand they are part of our family. They understand mistakes provide opportunities to learn, new doesn’t necessarily mean scary, and differences of opinion can be used to unite instead of divide. Campers thrive while feeling safe, wanted, and encouraged to be their true selves and every camper has that chance at Ingersoll. I’ll have to wait years before my niece attends camp, but I couldn’t be more excited to support your campers and experience their growth throughout this 2018 summer!

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We hope to welcome you into our Camp Family this summer,

Benjamin Silliman, Camp Director

More Information on programs, Family Fun Days, Parents Nights, Free Monthly Family Events and more can be found at campingersoll.com. Join us on www.facebook.com/campingersoll.

General Registration begins Monday, February 5th!

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