The Trick of Making Halloween a Treat for Children of Divorce

Holidays can be overwhelming for families at all stages of separation and divorce. Even for those who co-parent well, kid-centered holidays like Halloween can still present a number of challenges. But it is most important to make sure the children are happy and secure with the knowledge that both parents are there for them.

And with these tips, Halloween can be a treat for the kids as well as parents navigating any stage of co-parenting.

1. Some parents settle the issue of holiday time with an agreement in their parenting plan to alternate each year. If this is the case for you, try a video chat so everyone can share the joy of seeing the kids in costumes.

2. In some cases, parents may be able to continue to share the holiday. If you are not comfortable walking around the neighborhood together, there are options:

3. Finally, be sure to share photos/videos of your kids’ activities with each other.

Halloween is often a very exciting time for kids. So, put your adult differences aside and let your kids have fun. Every time you can put your differences aside and co-parent in the best interest of your kids, they will see just how much you love them. And that is the best treat of all!

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