How to put an end to one word answers!

By Carol Dores

I remember the boys coming home from school, and me asking them, “So how was school today.” All I would get was “good” or “fine”. I’d then ask, “What did you do?” All I would get is “nothing” or “the same old thing.” Boy, was it ever frustrating!

Want some questions you can ask your kids that might get more than one word answers?

Try these!

· What was your favorite thing at school today?

· What didn’t you like at school today?

· What was the funniest thing that happened?

· What was the best lunch?

· What was the biggest mistake someone made?

· What is the best thing to do at recess?

· Who do you wish was your friend?

· What are you most proud of from school today?

· What do you wish you had a “do over” for?

· What is the hardest rule to follow?

· What was the hardest thing in school today?

· Does your teacher remind you of anyone you know? If yes, who and what is it about them?

· How were you kind today?

· What was way too easy for you?

· What would you teach the class if you got to be the teacher tomorrow?

· What are you most looking forward to at school tomorrow?

· What made you feel the happiest?

These questions are there to help kids think about their day, and be able to share more with you. They work hard all day at school to “hold it together”, so having relaxing time after school is important for many kids. It’s probably best to give them some down time and a snack before asking a question. I found that walking side by side and car rides were the best times to start conversations. As we help them open up and talk more, we are building stronger relationships. We can then be there for our kids when they really need to talk to us.

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