Giving Back is a Family Tradition for this Mother/Daughter Duo

Nearly 50 years ago, Garden City resident Joan Hildreth attended a 60s wig party, a trend for women to try different hairstyles. Little did she know that this invitation would propel a decade’s long commitment to Mercy Medical Center.

The party served as a fundraiser for the Garden City League of Mercy Medical Center and since that day Hildreth has been an ardent volunteer. The league provides volunteer and fundraising support for the hospital.

Born in Minnesota, Hildreth met her husband, an eleventh generation islander from Southampton, in college. They settled in Garden City 50 years ago, raising a family of five and becoming vibrant members of the community.

Her work with Mercy was her way of giving back. Hildreth held many positions over the years including serving as president in 1973 and 1974.

“I was asked to chair the nominating committee,” Hildreth recalled. “The next thing I knew I was president.”

She served as Council League president from 1988 through 1990. Hildreth was on the board for six years and ran the thrift shop for 10 years as an unpaid chairman.

“Going over that Garden City line made you realize there’s a whole world out there,” shared Hildreth. “Helping people who haven’t had a chance in life was gratifying.”

The Mercy Medical Center Thrift Shop is still operated by The Council of Leagues.

“The shop brought in nearly $30,000 a year for the hospital,” Hildreth explained. “We refurbished the maternity department and we eliminated the crank-up beds.”

Serving as a precursor, that 60s wig party was just the beginning as the party is still going on thanks to Hildreth’s daughter, Jane O’Keefe. On a minute’s notice, O’Keefe is known to install a tent in her backyard and get the party rolling for a good cause.

O’Keefe, a mother of three,who settled in Garden City, also served as president. She’s chaired the St. Patrick’s Day luncheon, established the “Hats Off Garden Party” and assists every year with the Mercy Mother/Daughter dance with her mother and two daughters, Katie and Kelly - fostering a third generation of volunteerism.

Sister Ann Reekie, moderator for Mercy Leagues, has worked closely with Hildreth and O’Keefe.

"Joan’s whole demeanor sparkles with energy and enthusiasm,” shared Reekie. “They have been very generous with their time.”

O’Keefe attributes their volunteerism to strong family values.

“We sat down as a family every night for dinner,” said O’Keefe. “All of the children had different tasks. My parents instilled a good work ethic. We’re blessed with health and happiness and it’s been ingrained in us to give back.”