Most people agree honesty matters, but life is full of awkward moments when the truth can feel needlessly cruel. When, if ever, is a lie OK?
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Readers debate when it’s appropriate to correct bad manners, how to do it without shaming someone, and whether public civility is fading.
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Is it ever OK to correct someone’s manners? And how do you do it without embarrassing them or sounding like the etiquette police?
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Rude questions, real boundaries: Patch readers debate whether personal questions deserve grace, deflection, humor or a hard stop.
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What’s the best way to deflect nosy questions and set boundaries without being rude — or over-explaining yourself?
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Some cellphone etiquette guidelines should be obvious, such as not using them in restaurants, stores and public bathrooms, readers said.
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The use of smartphones in social situations is increasingly a flashpoint in manners, but it also raises privacy concerns.
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What comforts the grieving most? Respondents to Patch’s informal survey say simple words, shared memories, or just showing up matter most.
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Knowing what not to say when someone is grieving a family member, friend or pet is sometimes easier than finding words that offer comfort.
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From suspected child abuse to late-night screams for help, readers share what they did or wish they’d done differently in response.
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A couple of real-life rescues of abducted children raise the question: Should you get involved directly or call 911 and wait for police?
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From 20% restaurant tips to digital checkout pressure, readers say pandemic-era “tipflation” has reshaped when and how much they tip.
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It used to be so simple. Calculate a 15 percent tip on a restaurant bill, and you’re out of there. Has tipping gotten out of control?
